http://www.abc.net.au/news/2011-12-19/north-korean-leader-kim-jong-il-dead/3738526

Well, the ‘carking it’ brigade certainly knows how to throw a party.  It just shows  that when the past is larger and more than the future it pays to make sure that, on reflection, one can look back on a few things that were worthwhile doing.  In those last few seconds you would not want to break into a sweat realising that one could have done better, perhaps a bit kinder, more forgiving, more tolerant, less belligerant.  Those few seconds could well last decades, beware! Make friends with the past, reconcile and order a bunch of roses or cook some nice marinated chicken wings. It’s never too late.